Tired of Social Media Boundaries? How to Protect Your Peace and Keep Creating for the Fun of It

Hi there! I'm Aries Yoko, the fortune-telling manga artist. Creating is so much fun, isn't it? I love both original and fan creations! ★

But, even though you should be enjoying your favorite fandom, do you ever suddenly feel like "looking at Twitter (X) is exhausting"? Relationships with mutual followers, in particular, bring joy through feedback and interaction, yet they can also feel suffocating due to invisible rules and constant consideration. Today, I’ll talk about hints for managing these relationships to help the hearts of creators feel lighter.

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🌸 Why Does Mutual Following Become "Exhausting"?

Why do we worry about the very connections we wanted so badly? It's likely because you are too kind.

• Sense of Obligation to React: Are you pushing yourself, thinking, "They posted, so I must like or reply immediately"?
• Anxiety Over Different Interpretations: Do you feel pressure to agree when you feel their work or opinions differ from your own personal "headcanons"?
• Comparing Numbers: Seeing the other person's notification counts or follower numbers might subconsciously lead to feeling down about yourself.

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🌿 How to Draw "Boundaries" to Keep Your Creative Fire Alive

You and your work are the protagonists of your life.

1. Forgive Yourself for Not Reacting: In this age of information overload, it's impossible to track the entire timeline. Even if you miss something or can't react, the value of your work doesn't change, and your respect for the other person doesn't vanish.

2. Muting and Word Filtering are "Kindness" Functions: Before you grow to dislike someone, taking steps to keep them out of your sight for a while is wisdom for a long-lasting relationship. Protecting yourself is also a way of cherishing your connection with the other person.

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🌙 Let's Ask the Tarot for Specific Advice

"How can I resolve this current inner turmoil?" "What's the best way for me to engage with that person?"

Thinking alone can lead into a negative loop. In times like these, I recommend reflecting your situation in the Tarot cards. The cards will gently tell you your own true feelings, which are what you should cherish most right now.

• A card representing the current relationship: How is the balance between you and the other person?
• Advice for you: What is the key to interacting with social media for better fortune now?
• The near future: What kind of fun creative life awaits after you adjust your sense of distance?

I want you to use Tarot as a way to "organize your heart."

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In Closing

Doujin activities are a wonderful adventure where you give shape to your "love." Don't hold your pen just to please someone else; prioritize the passion within you first.

Aries Yoko is rooting for you to continue drawing your favorite characters and stories with a smile!